Looking over the past 3 years of my life, there’s no doubt that I have been hurt and felt betrayed. But I have learned to live with it and not deal with it, as matter of fact I have avoided the situation altogether. I have swept it under the rug. Every now and again it resurfaces and I start to runaway again. That’s obviously not working to well as wounds that I thought were healing feel as if someone poured alcohol on the open wound. That stinging sensation that occurs that makes you focus more on the wound. All these years I have been focusing on the wound and not the healing process. The healing process is not to forget what you have been through but to guide you not to repeat the process. Hopefully after we get hurt whether its getting burned or scraping our knees, that we enter the next phase of our lives with caution. Its not to avoid the whole situation because the situation will always send you reminders of what has happened. The reminders are the blemishes and scars left behind that when we look at it, it tells a story. Remember that life happens for us not to us.
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Separation by Force 